17 November 2009

Yes, Noel... of course it could...

...in exactly the same way that smoking crack can enhance your understanding of bosonic string theory...

Cheating can make someone a "better partner" and in fact lead to an improved relationship, says the founder of a website that facilitates extramarital affairs.
This guy sounds so sure of himself... I guess he must be basing his thesis here on personal experience?

Well, funny story there...
Biderman, who has been married for seven years and has two children, says both he and his wife have never cheated because they are "very honest with one another about what we need and how our relationship will work."
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6 comments:

James Higham said...

The defence mechanisms people employ.

Neo Conservative said...

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well... don't overlook simple amoral self-interest here... the man runs a website that facilitates adultery... for a fee.

call it "the pimp factor".

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Frances said...

Some years ago, there was a couple advocating 'open marriage' and loudly proclaiming that they did NOT need to be sexually faithful to each other to have a successful relationship. They had progressed far beyond that need. They also had quite a following.

Several years later, said couple renounced the concept. It seems that, among the following at least, without sexual fidelity there was a general lack of fidelity and commitment, with most couples splitting.

Adultery does happen, and is often excuised or even celebrated (listen to Andrea on last night's Michael Coren show). But fidelity and commitment are essential for a successful, long-term relationship and the enrichment to the family and society at large that comes with such a success.

Neo Conservative said...

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the thing is... mr "screw whoever you please" biderman... doesn't even practice what he preaches.

case closed.

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Michael Kleder said...

Using a reverse cellular search you can trace who owns any cell number, which means you can trace who is calling your spouse, or sending them text and picture messages. All you have to do is locate the numbers that you want to research, which you can typically get from your spouses cell.

Neo Conservative said...

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or, call me wacky, you could simply ditch mr/ms player... and find a partner who won't cheat.

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