Who's betting on doughy, inked up like a Juarez banger, man-bun? Absent father, I'm guessing.Here's a better question... "If you owned your own business... which of these two would you want to hire? Which of them appears to have drive & discipline?"
Look... be as fat as you want. Tattoo your neck, face and genitals. Make up a gender. That's not my business.
Just spare me your outrage that sane society doesn't celebrate undisciplined, self-indulgent outliers.
